Posted by: jeffmooney | April 30, 2008

Piper - How Can I Trust God’s Goodness after Abuse

Piper gives some helpful and provocative comments concerning the abused. Here is an excerpt from the story.

This question was asked of me at a Q&A session at the north campus of my own church last year. It was was an evening for asking questions of Pastor John, and this very one came up.

I began to answer it, and a woman raised her hand—a woman whose wedding I did twenty seven years ago (one of the first weddings I ever did at this church) and who is still in the church—and she asked if she could make a comment.

She came to the microphone and said that though she wouldn’t have spoken up years ago, she has worked through it far enough now. And she described her abuse for several years as a child. She said that she has struggled with this for most of her fifty or so years, and that at this point she can see things that she could not have known, loved, or experienced of God (or ministered to others) had this not happened to her. And she is finally, at this point in her life, able to thank God for the experience.

Here is the entire post. I would love your thoughts.

[ht:DG]

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As someone who has experienced abuse.. and other almost equally painful experiences, I wholeheartedly agree with Piper - that the best thing to do is confirm God’s sovereignty, even in difficult and seemingly needless & excruciating painful experiences. He always - ALWAYS - finds ways to use these experiences for our good, His glory, and to bring others to Himself. At least for those who are His and allow themselves to be healed by His amazing power. There are a few roads people can go down when they suffer at the hands of others, but I’d say the main one is bitterness. But I have come to learn that bitterness has no place in the heart of a follower of Christ. So there’s that road, or we can go down a road of humble submission to Christ - absolute hope and dependence on Him. That’s when He can seem to work backwards into our circumstances and when we look back on them, we see His sovereign hand, and it has become part of the beautiful story of Him transforming us into people who better reflect His awesome love. It’s kinda like what C.S. Lewis describes in The Great Divorce. Anyway, those are just my thought after reading that article. I would have the same advice for those I may come across who have experienced abuse.

Rebekah,

Thanks so much for your encouraging affirmation of the article. may God continue t heal you and undergird you with his sovereign mercy.

Mooney

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